Bull shish!!

I visited coco's blog and saw this thing about a guy lying if a girl is fat. i asked her online and she claimed that a guy shouldn't hurt a lady's feelings by "teling her she's fat or agreeing to her when she asks." This, she says, makes a woman look lower upon herself. Therefore, Lying here, is ok.

Of course, I begged to differ. Should we really lie just to appease a woman's feeling? A guy should be able to be honest to his lady whichever the situation is. I am not saying a guy should deliberately hurt her feelings but politely says what should be done. When a girl asksif she's fat and the guy agrees, he should rather politely say "u look like u gained weight but i still love u." I firmly believe that trust is a central part of a relationship of any kind. A woman should be able to ask anything to her partner and expect a truthful answer and vice versa. This "tradition" has been probably spurned by the culture of Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy. The "innocent" should be spared from disppointment through white lies.